APPLY TO JOIN THE UNSPEAKEASY

Congratulations! You’ve taken the first step toward speaking your mind, living more authentically in the world and forging new connections and friendships. We’re excited to meet you and get to know you.

But first things first.

At The Unspeakeasy, we take privacy seriously. Whether you’re joining the women’s only online forum or going on a coed retreat, we want to make sure you are what you say you are. This application process helps us ensure that everyone is acting in good faith, and it also lets you be sure you’ve come to the right place.

All of the information you provide us will be kept confidential, but we will use it to make sure you are who you say you are. 

Our community is based on honesty, both intellectual and personal. We reserve the right to remove members who risk other community members’ privacy or security.

    • Fill out the application to the best of your ability.

    • Agree to our terms and conditions.

    • Agree to abide by our statement of values. (If you read nothing else, please read this one!)

    • We might ask to set up a Zoom meeting with you to further verify your identity.

    • After verification, we will send you to a page to pay and pick your membership level. Right now, we are only admitting new members who register by their full and real names. We know this isn’t everyone’s preference, and we are working towards a solution that will let people maintain some anonymity. But for the moment, no pseudonyms or initials are allowed.​

  • Anyone who wants to join an Unspeakeasy activity! This includes:

    • The women’s only online forum.

    • In person retreats (women only or otherwise)

    • Men who want to join a coed retreat.

  • Yes! While we only have a few coed offerings (with more to come), this helps us know who you are.

  • The women’s only online forum is one of our most popular options. It’s like your own private social media platform with other thoughtful, interesting women who love nuance. Better yet, no one tells tales out of school.

    We have three pricing tiers with new benefits to be added to each soon. But for now, Heretic will get you everything, and if you want to show a little more support, feel free to join at the Pariah or Stunning & Brave levels.

    • Heretic — $250

    • Pariah — $750

    • Stunning & Brave — $1500

    Learn more about each price level here.